Thursday, July 30, 2009

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i am a black male who wants to grow an afro to get braided. i use dax for mosturizer and conditioner and i want to know if i should continue using it. here is a link to the grease. http://www.imperialdax.com/store/product...



Is " dax super hair conditioner 100% pure lanolin grease" good for my hair if i want to grow an afro?

Dax is better for fine hair



Is " dax super hair conditioner 100% pure lanolin grease" good for my hair if i want to grow an afro?

I have an Afro and i use Dax, it simply makes it rough and stay in one place. its strengthens your hair

I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm caus

will fall out:( EVERYTHING i tried to wave it wont work if i braid it, it only lasts 5 minutes, if i put it in a bun overnight it only lasts 5 minutes, and i use rollers, well they dont even work i cant scrunch it cause it doesnt stay..... WHAT CAN I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

listen to ur mom,



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

Yeah, don't listen to your mom's friend. Perming your hair will not make it fall out,



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

use a fixing spray before you braid and then throughout the day dampen your ands and scrunch your fingers through your hair to revitalize the spray,it works for my daughter,or even scrunch dry using a defuser and a fixing spray xx



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

i've got a similar problem. try using a really hot 1 inch curling iron to create spiral curls and use lots of hairspray!! strong freeze hold!! don't put in any smoothing, shining, or straightening products. maybe use a curling spray to spray on dry hair right before curling. i think i've used heat waves in an orange bottle and it worked for me, but the curls were a little sticky and stiff. don't condition your hair at the roots, just from mid-shaft to tips. i saw something in a magazine about ISO Nexture treatment and it supposedly transforms your hair from straight to beachy waves that last for like two weeks, no styling required. haven't tried it yet. good luck!



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

braid it while it is wet or even out it in a crazy bun while it is wet..thts wat i do!



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

i wish i had your problem my hair is naturally wavy and i hate it , i would swop with you if i could . but buy some crimping irons , instant waves without the damaging effects of a perm .



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

Permanents aren't as harsh now as they used to be. Plus some are designed specifically for wavy hair.



Perfect Touch is one I used to use all the time on those with straight hair wanting waves. It's very easy on the hair %26amp; never processes beyond the wavy stage. If I remember right it's 20 mins. processing max. You don't want to leave any perm on longer because even though the chemicals aren't as harsh, they're still chemicals. Once it's rinsed out, use a cool rinse to close the hair shaft. It also gives it more of a shine. It's also best to let it dry naturally. Don't wash it for a couple of days so it has time to set. Also make sure any color you may have put on your hair is at least a week old. Otherwise the perm can change it's color. If you've used even semi-permanent or spray on colors be sure %26amp; tell the beautician, especially the temporary ones with a henna base (common again) as it leaves a residue %26amp; the mixture can fry it.



Several beautician supply stores now let you buy it in the store w/o a license, if you want to do it yourself. Sally's is a national chain but there are plenty of local ones.



A good beautician will judge the porosity (how well it holds or absorbs water) of your hair %26amp; check for the curls every 5 mins. if you're just going for wavy.



But the risk of it falling out is minimal (if any) as long as you do what I said above.



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

What works for me is i curl it really curly. And hairspray. Then i crimp and it becomes perfectly wavy. Try it. But you dont need to try and change your hair. everyone is cool the way they are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

My sister has dead straight hair and she manages to get it wavy using straighteners (GHDs), take hair in sections - and sort of twist it in a spiral, then don't brush out, just shake your head a bit and apply max hold hairspray. It's the only way she's ever managed to have wavy hair, she did it for me once (I already have wavy hair) and I had loads of spiral curls that lasted until I washed my hair.



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

If your hair is so straight that it wont hold a curl after braids, heated rolers, buns etc, then a perm wont hold in it either I'm afraid. Some peope's hair is like that.



Try getting a mouse or spritz curl serum and wear your hair in sponge rollers over night. take them out gentelly and finger the curls through until the have lo0osened to a wave. spray the life out of it with a firm hold spray. This will probably hold for a few hours, but not all day.



Sorry not to be of more help!



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

ok, well i think you sould try this first, and if it doesnt work, then concider getting a perm...



ok. first you will need to have extreme hold hairspray.



and a one inch or one 1/2 inch curling iron....



and maybe some hair starch....



you need to do this in order...



1. dont wash your hair the day you will curl it...



2. blow it dry for a few mins.



3. then start in EXTREMELY small portions of amount of hair.



4. you will need to start from the bottom, then go up.



5. get a small peice of hair from the portion of your hair...



then use the hairspray all over that one peice.



6. curl the pice of hair, let it sit until its hot... then take it out.



7. do your whole head like that, then when your done shake your head... and run your fingers through it all...



its should work out.



I want my hair WAVY NOT CURLY but i h ave straight hair but my moms friend said dont get a perm cause my hair?

If your curling your hair. Try doing it in very small sections, I spray my hair lightly with hairspray before i tong it and lightly after. Too much spray might just weight it down. Once you take the curl out wrap it around your finger and then put a clip in it (bobby pin) let it cool down. Unravel it and it should hold for a while.



As for wetting it i would wet it, plait it then wrap it up in a bun. I would even consider using a diffuser though im not sure this will be as effective but worth a shot? I would either use a sea salt spray (Garnier, bumble %26amp; bumble etc) or a lightweight gel or spray.



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Will you please help me with my hair?

I want to do either french braids, fishtail braids, or dutch braids. How do I do fishtail or dutch braids? Please help! Thank you sooooo much!



Will you please help me with my hair?

Fishtail braids are created on dry, rather than wet hair. This adds to their overall loose, fluffy, soft appearance.



This braid works best on dry hair that is medium to very long in length and is not layered.



One hint when creating the Fishtail is to try to keep all the sections equal in thickness and to pull each strand tightly to give the uniform herringbone appearance.



Step One: Start by pulling all hair back into 4 equally spaced ponytails that rest at the nape of the neck. Work on one ponytail at a time and clip the other tails to the side. Be sure to use "hair friendly elastic" bands to hold the ponytails. It is best to use elastic bands that match your hair color.



It should be noted that you can experiment with more or less ponytails depending on the look you are trying to accomplish.



The style can be worn in a variety of modified ways including wearing bangs or side tendrils.



Step Two: Start with a ponytail on either end and then work towards the middle ponytails, finishing up on the opposite side of your head.



Divide the first ponytail into two equal sections of hair. Take a small (approximately 1 inch section) from above the left section of hair and cross it under the right section of hair.



Step Three: While holding the ponytail securely with your left thumb and allow the right side of your hand to be free and then take a small section (same approximate size as the previous section) from above the right side.



Step Four: Cross the section from above the right under to the left side of your hair. While holding the right side securely with your right thumb, continue steps 2-4 until you reach the end of the ponytail. Secure the remaining "tail hair" with a "hair friendly" elastic band.



To create a braid that is similar to the braid displayed above you should allow a long tail to flow down the back. It is best to make all the tails on all the ponytails the same length as much as possible.



Step Five: Once you have created all the braids from side to side, use your fingers or a rattail comb to carefully loosen the plaits to give the look a very soft messy appearance.



It is best to create plenty of "tail" at the end of the fishtail braid or else there is a danger that the elastic band may work its way out of place and the braid may loosen or fall out.



When finished spray with a very light holding hair spray. Since the key to this look is softness, the last thing you want to do is add a heavy spray.



Step Six: The braids can be adorned with gorgeous hair jewels such as rhinestone hair pins or other rhinestone jewelry. It can also be worn "as is". This style is easy, simple, fast and the results are stunning.



This hair style looks especially stunning on thick hair that has lots of contrasting colors that are emphasized with the tied hair pieces.



Will you please help me with my hair?

I'm sorry all I know how to make is french braids.



Will you please help me with my hair?

I am not totally sure, I have heard of them, but can't explain what to od. what i suggest is look on image results for french braids, so and so, or ask your hairdresser for an example...x



Will you please help me with my hair?

ummmm wat r fishtail braids?? french braids r easy u part u hair into 4, and then u braid, i think its like right to left of something like that...



Will you please help me with my hair?

shave it off %26amp; try a wig cheaper in the long term.



Will you please help me with my hair?

Here are some good instructions for dutch braiding:



http://www.dreamweaverbraiding.com/braid...



Fishtail braiding:



http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip462....



French Braiding Video:http://www.google.com/url?sa=t%26amp;ct=res%26amp;cd...



Will you please help me with my hair?

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http://www.dreamweaverbraiding.com/braid...



Will you please help me with my hair?

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love that one :)



Will you please help me with my hair?

i can't help you because it is the gift of god pls ask to your god.

Hair extensions??? agian?

how do you sew in extensions? what braid technique do you do to braid them in? what all supplies do you need? and how do you remove them?



Hair extensions??? agian?

First, you need to get them done by a professional. There are a few different methods; sew in, bond and quick weave are the most popular. Sew in lasts longer. Bond or quick weave is if u want something really temporary (like for a week) or if you have really short hair that cant be braided.



Sew ins are done after your natural hair is cornrowed in a circular design around your head. The more rows, the more hair you'll need to sew in. I suggest buying 2 packs of Zury human hair in Yacky texture. The stylist will use black thread and sew the tracks into your hair, leaving a part wherever you want it and enough of your natural hair out to cover the tracks. You remove them by letting a PROFESSIONAL ONLY cut the thread loose. Please dont do this yourself and dont let a friend do it, you will end up having bald spots.



Hair extensions??? agian?

Why don't you just go to a salon or better yet, grow out your own hair. It's more simple.



Hair extensions??? agian?

I don't know how to braid them in, but have you seen the new ones with gold clips that just attach near your root? They're pretty expensive and done in Redken salons, but worth it. Try searching for a ColorWorks salon near you and ask about pricing.



Hair extensions??? agian?

the supply you need is hourse hair hahahahehehe!!!!



Hair extensions??? agian?

There are many techniques but the most common are bonded extentions and sewn. Bonded are good for short term. The extentions are put on with hair glue close to the root of your natural hair. They are good for short term but for someone like me who sweats a lot the bonded method isnt good. The sewn method is better for long term. But you need to make sure you go to someone who is experienced to get a good one. However, be prepared to pay for a good job. Research your area for stylists and pricing. That way you know what you are dealing with. Make sure the stylist gives a consult along with show you pics of their work. Make sure during the consult your hair is in its natural state so that they know what they are working with.



Hair extensions??? agian?

u buy the hair human or fake if human u bye a needal and theard hair theard and braid your real hair and put the hair on top of your weave and start sweawing like u are really sweaing a cloth u remove it buy sissors b care full not 2 cut your real hair and klet someone eles cut it ok and if it is syenthic hair u will b inching like a morther fuker my dog holla bak ya dig hoe

What are some cute hair styles for an african american girl with medium long hair to do in just 30 m

what are some styles that i could do in just 30 minutes nothing involving braids i can't braid



What are some cute hair styles for an african american girl with medium long hair to do in just 30 minutes?

High up pig tails with colourful ribbons.



What are some cute hair styles for an african american girl with medium long hair to do in just 30 minutes?

you know, i always said if i was african american, i would wear my hair short. i wear my hair short now, so i really couldn't help you with your length. sorry



What are some cute hair styles for an african american girl with medium long hair to do in just 30 minutes?

Try some hair styles on this site



What are some cute hair styles for an african american girl with medium long hair to do in just 30 minutes?

how bout side bangs, pinned down, and put the rest up in a high ponytail or bun?



or straighten the hair and curl outwards at the ends



good luck!



What are some cute hair styles for an african american girl with medium long hair to do in just 30 minutes?

i need more details. Is your hair relaxed or natural?

Hair extensions help!!!!?

i currently know how to sew the extensiosn into the braid, ive done that , lmost 4 days ago, and they are already loosening, how can i tighten the braids without thaking the extensions out?



Hair extensions help!!!!?

all u do is braid it tighter they will be tighter but u ca also try pulling the string tighter



Hair extensions help!!!!?

??? ok??? uhhh idk if u kno how to put them in... maybe u should kno how to tighten them.



Hair extensions help!!!!?

youre going to have to take em off and glue em back on

I want my hair like this i cant describe how it is.. if i had to i would say it looks twirlyish.. he

i dont have a curling iron and i dont really think that braiding will work so what do i do?



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I want my hair like this i cant describe how it is.. if i had to i would say it looks twirlyish.. hehe?

get a large barrel curling iron. and wrap hair around and hold for aobut 10 seconds. then remove and hairspray

Does anyone know of a site for braiding??

i am a single mother of a 1 year old bi-racial son and need some suggestions on hair styles???



Does anyone know of a site for braiding??

Do a Yahoo! search for "black hair care" and it will list lots of different sites that can be used for different hair types including "bi-racial". A popular style of braiding for young men is "cornrows" (from front to back of head). A great site that has pictures of various styles for African-Americans is http://www.afrohair.com/styles/natural/

ATTentION MARRied COUples?

my wife has this idea that not talking to me is suposed to make me mad..when i ignore her being mad..she gets madder..when i ask whats wrong she either doesnt wanna talk or makes it worse and says something dumb about something that i did that she didnt like but i didnt intentionally do..and even when im not wrong and she thinks i should appologize and i do..she calls the apology b.s and its a basic smack in the face..so when i dont apologize she wonders why..at this very second shes down stairs braiding hair and im ignoring her cause she is acting weird..every few minutes shes nice then shes mean..she freakn nuts...earlier she was all nice i came back from the store an she was given me dirty looks..i wanna communicate and talk..she thinks slamming doors and ignoring me is the way to get my attention but we have been married 5 yrs..that crap doesnt phase me anymore..what the hecks her prob??



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

This sounds like the typical woman are hard to please and figure out scenario. I would like to throw out that you were able to put it down on the screen and say it in a way that was factual. This is important in communication. Maybe she needs to hear what you wrote and why some things she does bother you. At the same time look at what you know about her. She gets madder when you ignore her? Are you trying to reslove things with her or are you adding fuel to the fire? Five years is the make or break time. You know her better than anyone.



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

Your wife is a child.



Bummer.



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

It sounds like you guys need to go to marriage counseling. Communication is a two-way street.



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

Sounds to me like she has some serious communication problems and that is something you both need to work on together. Like someone else said, communication is a two way street and it doesn't work if one person isn't willing to at least try.



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

Mature people don't play silly games, stomp out of rooms, slam doors, ignore their spouse, give each other dirty looks etc.... they sit down and calmly talk over their issues and come to a compromise.



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

She loves you and wants to love you as much as she did beforw you hurt her feelings...Hurt depletes love..Amendments and conclusions must be reached to move foward and become more loving. isnt that your relational goal in life? If you cannot forsee this than you either need counseling...or its time for divource. It sounds like too many issues are going unresolved and that you are the main perpetrator on her relational values..work hareder quit or get fired



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

Perhaps you can just say you are going to just leave her alone and she can let you know when she's out of her funk. Also, you can let her know if there is anything she wants to talk about you would be happy to hear it.



Beyond that, what can you do? She's immature.



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

I would ask her if you two could talk without the drama and emphasize that you want to reconcile. Do everything on your part to make it clear that you want to work it out. If she doesn't agree to that then I would say that she just enjoys drama...which stinks :o(.



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

No couples ever been live happier ever after if not communicate often.



Communication gap will created and a very little thing misunderstood will make into an irreconcilable diferrence that lead to broken famil and worst to be affted are kids if there.



If respect to each other is the spice up to married couple in their relationship to make binding to one another. Patient is the most important factor that married one should adopt as a philosophy of life.



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

Dang man..just tell her what you wrote here to us...makes sense to me. Tell her you want her to act like an adult married woman and discuss problems instead of acting like a teenager who's mad at her daddy for something. She does sound crazy though...even crazy people need a second chance to get their sh*t together.



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

I am soo sorry..I know exactly what you are saying and feeling..I used to do this to my husband..and it was around 5 yrs of marriage..there's alot of things to think about and consider..when I used to do this to my husband..I felt lonely..he was always at his mom's house and didn't help me w/ the babies unless I asked him..another thing..I still had feelings for my first love..and wanted my husband to treat me like he did. I always, purposely, found things wrong w/ my husband so I can find more reason to be w/ someone else. We also had issues w/ my in-laws so it took some time..we almost went through a divorce..but that made us realize we truly love each other ..and that we can work things through. I'm sorry but sometimes..ultimatums DO work. Time apart works..2-3 days worked for us...time has past..and we are now married 10 yrs and counting..and we love each other more than ever. It just takes time. Your wife needs to learn to appreciate you. She doesn't right now..I can tell you that...but you have to take steps..to give her that ultimatum..they work..sometimes they don't work the way you want them to but they are worth trying.



I wish you a happy %26amp; blessed future..and don't forget to keep God close to your heart to help you through the heartache.



ATTentION MARRied COUples?

just go out and get drunk,, see how she likes that

I'm 16 and I need ways to earn money fast.?

I want to try out for cheerleading but it cost to much. I need ways to earn cash LEGALLY but all I keep coming up with is braiding hair and baby- sitting. Or do you know of any potential clients in the Atlana area??



I'm 16 and I need ways to earn money fast.?

Get a Job @ McDonald's



I'm 16 and I need ways to earn money fast.?

Become a salesperson, selling anything in a mall where you can make commissions. Like shoes or clothes. People will buy from you and the more you sell the more you make!



When I was 16, I waited Tables and made over 100 dollars a day! If you find a good restaurant you might be able to do more.



I'm 16 and I need ways to earn money fast.?

If you want to find a legitimate work at home job and really make money,I suggest you doing paid survey...

How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind

Step daughter who sees her Daddy and I once, sometimes twice a month wont mind. Threats don't work, she has no "room" at our place to send her to, and she wouldn't stay if we did send her, Dad dont like to punish cuz he never sees her and wants her to love him and me, but she is a little *****! She wont pick up, she cusses at her dad, she has attitude, she's a pest, bored, wants everything done for her like at mom's house, she wants everything bought for her, but we are less than broke. I tell her I'm takin her back to her moms and sometimes that works, but she's starting to want to go home.



We don't have a computer or CD player or anything to take from her, she smarts back and won't do time out, she's never phased by yelling. We get along for the first day, braiding hair, doing nails, girly stuff, then she gets demanding and bored. Dad stays drunk the entire time and seems not to care. I'm in a 1 room apt. with very limited funds living a nightmare for 3 days and am fed up.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Dad is the problem... She wants his attention and he is being a shmuck leaving you with the responsibility and she resents it. He needs to interact with her so she feels valued.



I'm sure you try your best to entertain her but you cannot compensate for his lack of interest and guidance.



What a crappy position to put you in!



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

You're asking how to make a 10 year old mind....and her father a grown man doesn't mind.



Start with the father first.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Time out is not for toddlers...



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

not to sound mean but most likely she is acting like this because she doenst like you and/or she is jealous that she doesnt have her dad to herself and needs attention from him



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

you need to tell your husband to deal with her.



Why is he drunk the entire time? what kind of father who only sees their child once or twice a month does that?



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Tell the little darling to stay home with mommie.



Hard enough to raise your own kid impossible to raise someone elses.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

if she is starting to want to go home, tell her she will have to stay and live with you unless she behaves properly



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

ya , ya need to suit up with a computerv or something {cell phone] that every kid wants, the leverage you will have. sounds like a lil paris :) goodluck



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

WHY?!?!?!?



Leave!!!!!



Get up and leave. If you don't have a computer how did you write the question and will you read this?



Leave!!!!!



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Stand up to this girl (both of you). If you want her love you guys - you need to show her you love her. By letting her get by with this behavior, you're not doing this.



Tell her, the next time, to stop it and grow up. You both deserve respect and your demanding it from her. Tell her if she wants to act like a child, you'll treat her like one and make her stand in the corner or something.



She might get mad, but she'll get over it and end the end, she'll respect you. Just make sure she knows how much you both love her.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Take her round the corner and shake her bloody guts out.lol



She is playing you.. and is probably a very confused child.Don't put up with her sh....t ! Tell her if she cannot behave don't come back until she can act her age



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Ground her and tell her if she doesnt shut up that she'll stay w/ u instead of going home...



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Bribery. Think of something she likes, and let her know that you'll do it... IF she behaves. Three strikes and she's out, and make sure you're consistent about it.



She will not respect you until and unless you give her reason to, and that means making sure that things are much better when she behaves (and gets rewarded) than when she doesn't (and gets punished.)



And Dad needs to get off his butt, put down the bottle, and be a dad instead of a lush.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Marry someone who is mature enough to deal w/situations instead of turning to substance abuse. Stop threatening and actually back up your threats.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

very easy ... put her over your knee and warm her "seat" of education....she will learn not to be a brat .... and no its not abuse at all ... you will be surprised how well it works



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

well tell her "do it or i will tell daddy about your boyfriend"it worked on me all the time now i am much more meture i am 12 now



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

It kinda seams like she mite be mad at you for not being around except for 1 or 2 times a mounth. Think about that, and the whole threat thing she won't listen to that b/c she knows that your not around long enough to carry the threat out..



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Frankly, this does not sound like a healthy envirnment for the child....dad's drunk all the time, and she doesn't have her own room at ten years old....? If Daddy's not paying enough attention to her and Mommy thinks that your home is a positive environment for her, I hope SOMEBODY takes her away from all three of you.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Maybe Mom needs to know that Daddy is drunk all the time. Then maybe the visits would be less frequent, or even cease. Not a healthy environment for a 10 year old girl. She is capitalizing on the fact that Daddy is drunk and won't punish her because he doesn't want to be the bad guy. She is playing you both and she is getting away with it. Time for a smackdown!



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

She is probably acting up to get her dads attention. If he isnt giving her attention and is spending the time drunk, then she doesnt need to be there anyway. This time is meant for him to bond with her, not to drive you insane. If you want to spend time with her, do so. Go get her and spend a few good hours. When she begins to act up, take her home. If he wants to see his child, he needs to sober up and take responsibility, after all, it is his child.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Maybe its about time for a smack on her bare butt! if she is out of control, then a whipping is the only thing that will bring her back under your control! try it and see.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

You really need to get dad involved. She knows already that dad dont care that is why she is acting out. Kids are so smart that way, she is probly not a bad kid, just a kid who is crying out for daddy's attention, it may sound weird, but when she yells %26amp; throws fits, you have to stay calm. Tell her when you are done, I will be back, I love you. And walk away. It may take time but she will calm down,and come to you. Dont argue in front of her to dad about his lack of attention, she will use that against you too. Also try to sit her down %26amp; ask her why she is so angry. tell her yu love her %26amp; want to help her %26amp; be there for her, That is a tough age I also have a 10 yr old girl, who is with me 6months %26amp; dad 6 months, she try to play us too. Good luck, and it doesnt hurt to give yourself a time out every once in awhile.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

I hate to burst your bubble but discipline is not your job; she's not your child. You should butt out and throw it all on Daddy Dearest. If you yelled at my child, whether it was a smart mouth or not, I'd break your jaw.



When are you going to figure out that the child hates your guts? She's not helpless so let her do for herself. You need to try leaving for the entire weekend when the brat is there and let Daddy figure out what to do with her. Can't you see that he is just using you for a babysitter?



Stop bribing her with girlie stuff because you see it doesn't work. If he won't correct the problem, I suggest taking a long leave of absence from both of them.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

That guilty dad syndrome does nothing for the child. She knows he isn't going to do anything if she's bad so why listen? He is the one at fault. She is a brat because she was raised that way. Its not her fault. It also doesn't help that she only sees you guys once or twice a month. Children need consistency. Once or twice per month is not going to cut it. I don't know what the situation is and why it is so little time but she is probably acting out because she gets attention when she is being bad. How does her mom deal with her? Does she act the same with her? If this isn't under control now, you guys are going to have lots of problems when she is 16 or so. Tell her dad that he cant feel guilty. Suck it up, be a man, and discipline that girl. His "love" and lack of discipline will only hurt her in the future. I hope things work out.



Edit: Why are you with that man? He's drunk all the time? Sorry I didn't read your whole post. I'm sure you love his daughter because obviously you are posting here, but do you love yourself? You need a real man that takes care of himself, you and if he has kids, the kids too.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Wow, the poor kid.



Mom won't teach her responsibility and give her the chance to learn to feel good about herself... and Dad is a raging alcoholic.



Any wonder she acts out? Maybe she feels if she acts up enough Dad might stop drinking and start paying attention to her?



It's not up to you to take time with her, though it's kind of you to do the girly stuff with her, this is really supposed to be time with her FATHER.



If he can't find the heart to stay sober for a couple of lousy days a month to spend time with his child, he really should just do her a favor and drop his visitation.



You can't set up any kind of meaningful punishment system in a couple days a month, especially if you aren't working with Mom on it.



Do her homework with her. Ask how her relationships with her friends are going. Don't be her friend, doing nails, etc. Be her parents. Parents who care don't buy their kids everything they want. They teach them the value of hard work. But again, as the stepmom you are on the fringe of this - if her father isn't interested in being in her life for real, you cannot fix it.



And, I'm no social worker, but I cannot see how the state allows visits from a child to a 1 rm apt with no separate sleeping space for the child. I can't imagine how uncomfortable it must make her, and you.



You are a better woman than I.



I'd have dumped that husband ages ago.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

Please, send her back to her mom's house.



She is suffering from lack of organization,scheduling and no positive constructive chores and a drunken parent.



She doesn't know what is expected of her and if she does them, what are the rewards.



She has a drunken father?



She see's him only once or twice and he can't stay sober enough to interact with her like a father should.



I feel sorry for her. She is angry, bored and confused about her feelings. She has no room of her own ,no father who really gives a_______ and then to top it all off sounds like her mom tries to make up for it by babying her and doing it all.



She has nothing going for her and you can't help her either. You're fighting a losing battle until mom gets the message.



Call the NANNY!!! 911



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

It seems like Dad doesn't spend time with her anyway, if she acts up, pack her up and take her home, she is not your child and you in no way need to not only babysit her but her father, put your foot down demand respect sounds like you earn it- If she has a CD player at home tell her to bring it. again this is not your problem- Mom can have her back and when Dad gets his life together he can go get her and deal with her, if he doesn't see her till she older then that is his choice and hers as well because she can't act right- You should not live a nightmare, this is a problem of his and his ex made-



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

BE FIRM - FAIR - FRIENDLY



BE CONSISTENT



GIVE CHOICE AND CONSEQUENCES



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

I would have a talk with the father about staying drunk and not helping. Its his child he should at least do something sound slike she screaming for help to me. She wants attention as daddy get out of the chair and put the beer down and go to the park. As for you hun look at him and say your child I have done all I can do and your both being 10 years olds.



When she starts the hissy fit. Let her get it out then look at her and say are you done now so we can actually talk like human beings instead of monkeys? (I pull this on my 10 year old son alot as well as 3 teenagers I have in the household) . lol



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

she is angry, very very angry- can you blame her? Look at what she has to deal with- divorce, new step mom, drunk dad? I feel sorry for her. Try to see things thru her eyes instead of acting like you are ten yrs old! You are supposed to be the adult here, get this kid to counseling, hell the all of you need to go. Maybe then after awhile things will change and all of you can be happy instead of so dysfunctional.



I wish you the best.



How do I get a 10yr old to mind? I don't hit and time out is for toddlers. She won't mind no matter what I say

A family counselor once told me that unless there is a strong bond with the child, a step-parent cannot discipline a step-child. It just doesn't work. It's up to her father to do the disciplining and from what you've written, he's not "there" to do that.



I don't see how you are responsible for having her over for visits if he is going to be drunk the entire time and I'd make that clear to your husband. Sounds like there should be some counseling between your husband and yourself.

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Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

(1 Tim 2:9-12 NRSV) also that the women should dress themselves modestly and decently in suitable clothing, not with their hair braided, or with gold, pearls, or expensive clothes, 閳?



Let a woman learn in silence with full submission.



I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she is to keep silent.



(1 Tim 2:13-14 NRSV) For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was *not deceived*, but the woman *was deceived* and became a transgressor.



So Eve was deceived, therefore the judgments of all descendent women are inferior according to the Apostle Paul.



ANOTHER EXAMPLE FROM THE BIBLE THAT WOMEN ARE SECOND RATE



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Because the Bible was written by men who weren't getting laid. Obviously...



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

The Bible is the inspired Word of God........therefore, these are not Paul's words.......



They are God's.



Who are we to question the Lord?



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Probably because it was the truth. But that's just my personal observation.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Because he was a barking mad, intolerant, misogynistic fanatic.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

That was way before women could vote!



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

I would answer this question but I'm afraid a lightening might strike me for voicing my opinion.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Mainly because Paul was a misogynist homophobic a$$hole who had a stroke. I mean conversion.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

You are using the wrong user name, Don Novello made up the character Fr. Guido and he is a guy who really loves women and would never be so insulting.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Yes, Eve was deceived and ate the fruit of knowledge (although how she could be held accountable for doing something "evil" before she had the knowledge of good and evil has always seemed a bit off to me)--but Adam could still have said no.



He just couldn't bear the thought that a woman might be smarter than him; so he had to eat it, too and then blame her for the rest of time for the consequences.



Wah.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

He's talking about Hillary Clinton



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

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(9-10) Women should emphasize spiritual preparation and beauty more than physical preparation and beauty.



In like manner also, that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing, but, which is proper for women professing godliness, with good works.



a. In like manner also: The word also refers back to the statement that the men pray everywhere in 1 Timothy 2:8. Paul thought the principle of 1 Timothy 2:8 should apply in various congregations, and so should the principle in 1 Timothy 2:9.



b. That the women adorn themselves in modest apparel: This is how Christian women are supposed to dress, especially at their Christian meetings. The words propriety and moderation help explain what modest apparel is.



i. Propriety asks, 閳ユ窔s it appropriate for the occasion? Is it over-dressed or under-dressed? Is it going to call inappropriate attention to myself?閳?Moderation asks, 閳ユ窔s it moderate? Is it just too much 閳?or far too little?閳?Moderation looks for a middle ground.



ii. The braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing Paul mentions were adornments that went against the principles of propriety and moderation in that culture.



iii. How you dress reflects your heart. If a man dresses in a casual manner, it says something about his attitude. Likewise, if a woman dresses in an immodest manner, it says something about her heart.



iv. 閳ユ凡oman has been invidiously defined: An animal fond of dress. How long will they permit themselves to be thus degraded?閳?(Clarke)



c. But . . . with good works: The most important adornment is good works. If a woman is dressed in propriety and moderation, with good works, she is perfectly dressed. Good works make a woman more beautiful than good jewelry.



3. (11-12) Women are to show submission, and yield to the authority of the men God has appointed to lead in the church.



Let a woman learn in silence with all submission. And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence.



a. Let a woman learn in silence: This unfortunate translation has led some to believe that it is forbidden for women to even speak in church meetings. Paul uses the same word translated silence in 1 Timothy 2:2, and it is translated peaceable there. The idea is without contention instead of total silence.



i. In other places in the New Testament, even in the writings of Paul, women are specifically mentioned as praying and speaking in the church (1 Corinthians 11:5). To learn in silence has the idea of women receiving the teaching of the men God has chosen to lead in the church, with submission instead of contention.



ii. Submission is the principle; to learn in silence describes the application of the principle.



iii. Some have said the reason for this is because in these ancient cultures (as well as some present-day cultures), men and women sat in separate sections. The thought is that women interrupted the church service by shouting questions and comments to their husbands during the service. Clarke expresses this idea: 閳ユ窔t was lawful for men in public assemblies to ask questions, or even interrupt the speaker when there was any matter in his speech which they did not understand; but this liberty was not granted to women.閳?br>



b. With all submission: The word for submission here literally means, 閳ユ翻o be under in rank.閳?It has to do with respecting an acknowledged order of authority. It certainly does not mean that men are more spiritual than women or that women are inferior to men.



i. 閳ユ穾nyone who has served in the armed forces knows that 閳ユΜank閳?has to do with order and authority, not with value or ability. . . . Just as an army would be in confusion if there were no levels of authority, so society would be in chaos without submission.閳?(Wiersbe)



c. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man: Paul閳ユ獨 meaning seems clear. Women are not to have the role of teaching authority in the church. To be under authority is the principle; not teaching is the application.



i. Paul is saying that the church should not recognize women as those having authority in the church regarding matters of doctrine and Scriptural interpretation.



ii. Not all speaking or teaching by a woman is necessarily a violation of God閳ユ獨 order of authority in the church. Whatever speaking or teaching is done by a woman must be done in submission to the men God has appointed to lead the church.



iii. 1 Corinthians 11:1-12 emphasizes the same principle. Women are to always act under authority in the congregation, demonstrated in Corinthian culture by the wearing of a head covering. Therefore a woman in the Corinthian church could only pray or prophesy if she demonstrated that she was under the leadership of the church, and she demonstrated this by wearing a head covering and by acting consistently with that principle.



d. I do not permit: The strength of Paul閳ユ獨 wording here makes it challenging to obey this command in today閳ユ獨 society. Since the 1970閳ユ獨, our culture has rejected the idea that there may be different roles for men and women in the home, in the professional world, or in the church. In this text (among others), the Holy Spirit clearly says there is a difference in roles.



i. But the cultural challenge must be seen in its true context - not just a struggle between men and women, but as a struggle with the issue of authority in general. Since the 1960閳ユ獨, there has been a massive change in the way we see and accept authority.



Citizens do not have the same respect for government閳ユ獨 authority.



Students do not have the same respect for teacher閳ユ獨 authority.



Women do not have the same respect for men閳ユ獨 authority.



Children do not have the same respect for parental authority.



Employees do not have the same respect for their employer閳ユ獨 authority.



People do not have the same respect for the police閳ユ獨 authority.



Christians no longer have the same respect for church authority.



ii. There are not many who would say that these changes have been good. Generally, people do not feel safer and there is less confidence in the culture. Television and other entertainment get worse and worse. In fact, our society is presently in, and rushing towards, complete anarchy - the state where no authority is accepted, and the only thing that matters is what one wants to do.



iii. It is fair to describe our present moral state as one of anarchy. There is no moral authority in our culture. When it comes to morality, the only thing that matters is what one wants to do. And in a civil sense, many neighborhoods in our nation are given over to anarchy. The government閳ユ獨 authority is not accepted in gang-infested portions of our cities. The only thing that matters is what one wants to do.



iv. We must see the broader attack on authority as a direct Satanic strategy to destroy our society and millions of individual lives. He is accomplishing this with two main attacks. First, the corruption of authority; second, the rejection of authority.



v. This idea of authority and submission to authority are so important to God that they are part of His very being. The First Person of the Holy Trinity is called the Father; the Second Person of the Holy Trinity is called the Son. Inherent in those titles is a relationship of authority and submission to authority. The Father exercises authority over the Son, and the Son submits to the Father閳ユ獨 authority - and this is in the very nature and being of God. Our failure to exercise Biblical authority, and our failure to submit to Biblical authority, isn閳ユ獩 just wrong and sad - it sins against the very nature of God. 1 Samuel 15:23 speaks to this same principle: For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft.



e. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man: Paul閳ユ獨 focus here is the public worship of the church. God has established a clear chain of authority in both the home and in the church, and in those spheres, God has ordained that men are the 閳ユ笁ead閳?- that is, that they have the place of authority and responsibility.



i. Our culture, having rejected the idea in a difference in role between men and women, now rejects the idea of any difference between men and women. The driving trends in our culture point towards men who are more like women, and women who are more like men. Styles, clothes, perfumes, and all the rest promote this thought.



ii. The Bible is just as specific that there is no general submission of women unto men commanded in society; only in the spheres of the home and in the church. God has not commanded in His word that men have exclusive authority in the areas of politics, business, education, and so on.



iii. It also does not mean that every woman in the church is under the authority of every man in the church. Instead it means that those who lead the church - pastors and ruling elders - must be men, and the women (and others) must respect their authority.



iv. The failure of men to lead in the home and in the church, and to lead in the way Jesus would lead, has been a chief cause of the rejection of male authority - and is inexcusable.



v. Some feel this recognition and submission to authority is an unbearable burden. They feel that it means, 閳ユ窔 have to say that I am inferior, that I am nothing, and I have to recognize this other person as being superior.閳?Yet inferiority or superiority has nothing to do with this. We remember the relationship between God the Father and God the Son - they are completely equal in their being, but have different roles when it comes to authority.



vi. Some may say that the church cannot work (or cannot work well) unless we go along with the times and put women into positions of spiritual and doctrinal authority in the church. From the standpoint of what works in our culture, they may be right. Yet from the standpoint of pleasing God by doing what He says in His word, they are wrong.



4. (13-14) Reasons for God閳ユ獨 recognition of male authority in the church.



For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression.



a. For Adam was formed first: The first reason for male authority in the church is order of creation. Adam (man) was created first, and given original authority on earth.



i. The first command God gave to the human race is found in Genesis 2:16-17: Of every tree of the garden you may freely eat; but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die. This command was not given to woman at all. At the time that command was given, Eve was not yet created from Adam.



ii. Therefore, Adam received his command and his authority from God, and Eve received her command and authority from Adam.



b. The woman being deceived: The second reason is the difference in the sin of Adam and Eve, as connected to their difference in authority.



i. Both Adam and Eve sinned in the Garden of Eden, and Eve clearly sinned first. Yet, the Bible never blames Eve for the fall of the human race, but always blames Adam (through one man sin entered the world, Romans 5:12). Adam is responsible because of there was a difference of authority. Adam had an authority Eve did not have; therefore he also had a responsibility Eve did not have. Adam failed in his responsibility in a far more significant way than Eve did.



ii. As well, Eve was deceived, and Adam was not deceived. Eve was tricked; but Adam sinned knew exactly what he was doing when he rebelled. This means that though Adam閳ユ獨 sin was worse, Eve閳ユ獨 ability to be more readily deceived made her more dangerous in a place of authority. 閳ユ窊ve閳ユ獨 reasoning faculty was at once overcome by the allegation of jealousy felt by God, an allegation plausible to a nature swayed by emotion rather than by reflection.閳?(White)



iii. Generally speaking, it may be observed that women seem to be more spiritually sensitive than men - but this can be true for good or evil.



iv. Adam . . . the woman: 閳ユ藩t. Paul says woman rather than Eve, emphasizing the sex rather than the individual, because he desires to give the incident its general application, especially in view of what follows.閳?(White)



v. Significantly, these reasons are not dependent upon culture. Those who say 閳ユ阀aul was a sexist man in a sexist culture,閳?and discount these words, are simply not reading what the Holy Spirit says in the sacred Scriptures here.



5. (15) Being a Christian woman in light of Eve閳ユ獨 curse.



Nevertheless she will be saved in childbearing if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control.



a. Nevertheless she will be saved in childbearing: Many people regard this as one of the most difficult passages in the whole Bible. On the surface, it could be taken to mean that if a woman continues in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control, that God will bless her with survival in childbirth 閳?which was no small promise in the ancient world.



i. Yet this interpretation leaves many difficult questions. Is this an absolute promise? What about godly women who have died in childbirth? What about sinful women who have survived childbirth? Doesn閳ユ獩 this seem like just a reward for good works, and not according to God閳ユ獨 grace and mercy?



b. Saved in childbearing if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self control: Some approach this passage saying saved refers to gaining eternal life. Yet this interpretation is even more difficult. Are women saved eternally by giving birth to children - but only if they continue with godly virtues? What about women who can閳ユ獩 have children? Are they denied salvation?



c. She will be saved in childbearing: Some say that Paul 閳ユ窏as mostly in mind that child-bearing, not public teaching, is the peculiar function of woman, with a glory and dignity all its own.閳?(Robinson) The idea is that one should let the men teach in church and let the women have the babies.



d. She will be saved in childbearing: A better way to approach this passage is based on the grammar in the original Greek language. In the original, it says she will be saved in the childbirth. This has the sense, 閳ユ窊ven though women were deceived, and fell into transgression starting with Eve, women can be saved by the Messiah - whom a woman brought into the world.閳?br>



i. Probably, the idea here is that even though the 閳ユ辅oman race閳?did something bad in the garden by being deceived and falling into transgression, the 閳ユ辅oman race閳?also did something far greater, in being used by God to bring the saving Messiah into the world.



ii. The summary is this: Don閳ユ獩 blame women for the fall of the human race; the Bible doesn閳ユ獩. Instead, thank women for bringing the Messiah to us.



e. Faith, love, and holiness, with self-control: Most of all, we should note these positives. They are all qualities God wants to be evident in women, and that women have effectively nurtured in their children through generations.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

God set the rules up and man is in charge



it doesnt mean they are better.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

It looks as though you believe you must have the perfect understanding of scripture. So I will not attempt to inform you. If you want to interpret scripture that way, you can. You are mistaken, but you can interpret it that way if it serves your purpose.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Try reading the gospel of Luke before making such a prejudicial statement like that. The problem with picking up the New Testament and rummaging around looking for 'modern flaws' is that you did not live in that time period.



Luke's gospel was written after Paul's letters and the take is completely different.



There is a story from India about blind men each touching an elephant, one the trunk, one the hide, and one the tail, their "image of the elephant was completely different from each other" though it was the same elephant.



When you blindly skip around in the Bible not looking for the complete Word of God but just look for "modern negative' or "PC" you will find it. Paul's' society was different from ours and we should take that into consideration when reading his letters..



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Some believe Paul had some difficulties with some women Church members so he told them to shut up...oops...be quiet in his Church. Today, some non-profit Churches look poorly on women, especially women legally married to ordained male ministers.



Some ministers surround themselves exclusively with unmarried men only.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Funny thing about Paul. He sure put a lot of women in positions of some authority for a "misogynist". Prisca, Lydia, several others, including one he himself called an "Apostle".



Maybe you'd be better off actually reading Acts and Paul's Letters instead of taking some twit's word for what they say.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Paul was a closet homosexual who feared women and wanted to keep Jesus to himself. He didn't want to share Jesus with the women.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Yes, women are supposed to LEARN in silence. I agree with that. People should all learn in silence. Obviously, women disrupting services was a big problem back then, or else that wouldn't have been written.



As for the "I permit no women...to have authority over a man," that's a mistranslation. Go figure. The Greek word used actually meant "to usurp" not "to have."



Read Galatians 3:28 and 1 Corinthians 11:11-16.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Paul was in error. He was merely holding fast to the traditions of his era. He had quite an ego and everything he wrote isn't ordained by God or Jesus. Paul inserted many of his own opinions into the new doctrine he created in the Bible. Jesus believes that men and women are equal. He did not preach what Paul preached.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

No. It's all allegory in both covenants: Galatians 4.



Jesus notably called his mom "woman", and twice;



And neither Jn 2:4 nor Jn 19:26 were a compliment.



Woman is allegory for church, bride, and "people". Eg:



Woman: dble "Amen amen" to blessed + cursed: Num 5.



People: dble "Amen, amen" to blessed + cursed: Neh 8.



Where no law, there no transgression: Rom 4:15



Woman, dec'd, was in transgression: 1Tim 2: 14



So the dec'd woman was in the law. Selah.



"There is no respect of persons with God".



Adam = "male and female": "them": Gen 5.



Forgive "them", for they know not.



As in "Adam" all die.



It's not about male vs female.



It's all about law vs grace.



It's now the age of grace.



The GRACE of our Lord Jesus Christ with you all. Amen.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

Re: the part about women dressing modestly.



Apparently God never traveled to the Deep South USA, or any other areas of the globe where the temps and humidity hover near 100, where less clothing=better.



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

it was an archaic world..



Why does the apostle Paul claim women have inferior judgment?

THE ONLY THING HE WAS EVER RIGHT ABOUT

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Can you take a BC during pregnancy...?

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Can you take a BC during pregnancy...?

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Can you take a BC during pregnancy...?

Tylenol only while you're pregnant unless your OB/GYN has prescribed something else.



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Can you take a BC during pregnancy...?

You can only take Tylenol for pain

Any suggestions on costumes for a beach party?

My parents are having an anniversary party next month...it's in a hall, but completely beach-themed. I mean...decked out in everything beach [the invitations were messages in a bottle!]



SO...since the attire is "beach"...I wanted to play a bit of a joke...and get a really good costume going for the party.



Now...I'm NOT fit for the whole "coconut bra" deal...so don't even suggest it. lol But...I'm looking for cool ideas! I'm thinking of getting my hair braided, get some flowers thrown in. I was thinking of coming in with a snorkel and flippers on. But not sure if that's too much. lol



ANY IDEAS WOULD BE GREAT! Thanks! =D



Any suggestions on costumes for a beach party?

Gilligans island characters.

How can one understand the bible better?

Understanding the Bible



In this article, I would like to help you see the Bible from a fresh perspective. Let's try to look at the Bible as though you have never seen it before.



Imagine that we are good friends. One day we are talking:



Me: Wow, you will not believe this new book I've been reading!



You: What's it about?



Me: It is a manual for living a better life. It is also a guide to creating a better society for ourselves and our children. It has changed my life!



You: That sounds like an important book. Who wrote it?



Me: The author is supposed to be the smartest person in the universe.



You: That's amazing -- if the author is the smartest person in the universe, the book must be absolutely brilliant. I can't wait to see it. Do you have a copy with you?



Me: Absolutely! I carry it with me everywhere I go! Here, have a look for yourself...



You open the book to a random page, and you find this:



Any of the people of Israel, or of the aliens who reside in Israel, who give any of their offspring to Molech shall be put to death; the people of the land shall stone them to death. I myself will set my face against them, and will cut them off from the people, because they have given of their offspring to Molech, defiling my sanctuary and profaning my holy name. And if the people of the land should ever close their eyes to them, when they give of their offspring to Molech, and do not put them to death, I myself will set my face against them and against their family, and will cut them off from among their people, them and all who follow them in prostituting themselves to Molech.



If any turn to mediums and wizards, prostituting themselves to them, I will set my face against them, and will cut them off from the people. Consecrate yourselves therefore, and be holy; for I am the Lord your God. Keep my statutes, and observe them; I am the Lord; I sanctify you. All who curse father or mother shall be put to death; having cursed father or mother, their blood is upon them.



If a man commits adultery with the wife of his neighbour, both the adulterer and the adulteress shall be put to death. The man who lies with his father閳ユ獨 wife has uncovered his father閳ユ獨 nakedness; both of them shall be put to death; their blood is upon them. If a man lies with his daughter-in-law, both of them shall be put to death; they have committed perversion; their blood is upon them. If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall be put to death; their blood is upon them. [Leviticus, chapter 20]



You are not quite sure what to say. You look at me for a moment.



You: I thought you said that this is written by the most intelligent person in the universe. If we are going to follow what this author says, we have to kill half the people in America. We are supposed to kill everyone who has cursed his father or mother, everyone who has committed adultery, and every homosexual.



Me: Well, that's in the old testament, you see. The book is really two books, and the "old" part of the book doesn't really apply.



You: Are you saying that the smartest person in the universe once wanted us to kill every adulterer and homosexual, but then changed his mind? That somehow makes it better? If the "old part" no longer applies, then why did you hand it to me when I asked to see the book?



Me: Well, parts of it do apply.



You: Didn't you just tell me that it doesn't apply?



You open the book to another random page and you find this:



When you buy a male Hebrew slave, he shall serve for six years, but in the seventh he shall go out a free person, without debt. If he comes in single, he shall go out single; if he comes in married, then his wife shall go out with him. If his master gives him a wife and she bears him sons or daughters, the wife and her children shall be her master閳ユ獨 and he shall go out alone. But if the slave declares, 閳ユキ love my master, my wife, and my children; I will not go out a free person閳? then his master shall bring him before God. He shall be brought to the door or the doorpost; and his master shall pierce his ear with an awl; and he shall serve him for life.



When a man sells his daughter as a slave, she shall not go out as the male slaves do. If she does not please her master, who designated her for himself, then he shall let her be redeemed; he shall have no right to sell her to a foreign people, since he has dealt unfairly with her. If he designates her for his son, he shall deal with her as with a daughter. If he takes another wife to himself, he shall not diminish the food, clothing, or marital rights of the first wife. And if he does not do these three things for her, she shall go out without debt, without payment of money.



Whoever strikes a person mortally shall be put to death. If it was not premeditated, but came about by an act of God, then I will appoint for you a place to which the killer may flee. But if someone wilfully attacks and kills another by treachery, you shall take the killer from my altar for execution.



Whoever strikes father or mother shall be put to death.



Whoever kidnaps a person, whether that person has been sold or is still held in possession, shall be put to death. Whoever curses father or mother shall be put to death.



When individuals quarrel and one strikes the other with a stone or fist so that the injured party, though not dead, is confined to bed, but recovers and walks around outside with the help of a staff, then the assailant shall be free of liability, except to pay for the loss of time, and to arrange for full recovery.



When a slave-owner strikes a male or female slave with a rod and the slave dies immediately, the owner shall be punished. But if the slave survives for a day or two, there is no punishment; for the slave is the owner閳ユ獨 property. [Exodus, chapter 21]



Again, you are dumfounded. Here the author of the book is advocating slavery, the branding of slaves, and the wholesale beating of slaves. You are not quite sure what to say. You look at me for a moment.



You: You have to be kidding me. Here the "smartest person in the universe" is telling us that slavery is OK and that we are free to beat our slaves.



You open the book to another random page and you find this:



I desire, then, that in every place the men should pray, lifting up holy hands without anger or argument; also that the women should dress themselves modestly and decently in suitable clothing, not with their hair braided, or with gold, pearls, or expensive clothes, but with good works, as is proper for women who profess reverence for God. Let a woman learn in silence with full submission. I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she is to keep silent. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. Yet she will be saved through childbearing, provided they continue in faith and love and holiness, with modesty. [1 Timothy, chapter 2]



You are nearly speechless. But you manage to find your voice.



You: Is this some kind of joke? "I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over a man." That is totally sexist! In America, there are millions of female teachers and we have women throughout our corporate and govenment hierarchies. No intelligent person believes that women should be silenced.



As you page through the book further you find that it is totally sexist from beginning to end.



You keep opening the book to random pages, and nearly everything you find is utter nonsense. Either it is meaningless, completely irrelevant, disgusting or downright wrong.



If you are a scientist it is even worse, and it starts with the very first line:



In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth...



That's not true. In the beginning a natural event created the universe as we know it, and the earth did not form until billions of years later. The creation story in Genesis is completely wrong. Simply read Genesis and you can see it. For example, the Bible says that light and darkness are created after the water but before the sun. Everyone knows that the sun came first, then the planet and its rotation (which is what causes light and darkness to occur on a daily basis) and then the water, and this all happened over million of years. There are many other problems with the Bible:



Man did not come from a handful of dust through some mythological being. Man evolved from other species like every other living thing has for hundreds of millions of years.



The Bible talks about a world-wide flood that covered earth in 5.5 miles of water and killed everything, yet we know it never happened. That is clear from the archeolgical record.



There was no tower of Babble.



The list goes on and on. The Bible is nonsense in a thousand different scientific ways.



Ask yourself this simple question: Why, when you read the Bible, are you not left in awe? Why doesn't a book written by an omniscient being leave you with a sense of wonder and amazement? If you are reading a book written by the all-powerful, all-knowing, all-loving creator of the universe, wouldn't you expect to be stunned by the brilliance, the clarity and the wisdom of the author? Would you not expect each new page to intoxicate you with its incredible prose and its spectacular insight? Wouldn't you expect the author to tell us things that scientists have not been able to discover yet?



Yet, when we open the Bible and actually read it, we find it is nothing like that at all. Instead of leaving us in awe, it leaves us dumbfounded by all of the nonsense and backwardness that it contains. If you would look at the Bible fresh, and read what it actually says, you find that the Bible is ridiculous. The examples shown above barely scratch the surface of the Bible's numerous problems. If we are honest with ourselves, it is obvious that an "all-knowing" God had absolutely nothing to do with this book.



The Bible is a book written thousands of years ago by primitive men. A book that advocates senseless murder, slavery and the oppression of women has no place in our society today. It is time for us to recognize this simple fact.



How can one understand the bible better?

I understand what you mean.



When I being to read a book, I keep an open mind to find the things I like or things that make sense. I usually end up reading the whole book if I like what I read or that there is something difficult but interesting to figure out.



Perhaps you might have better luck at it, that's all the "pro-bible" things I could say.



How can one understand the bible better?

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How can one understand the bible better?

What the hell is all this?



How can one understand the bible better?

I'm glad you realized that God didn't write the Bible. Now you need to realize what you are put on this earth for. You're name is either in the book of life or it isn't since before the foundations of the world.



Read, in your Bible, Ephesians 4:4 According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundations of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love:



If you were chosen of him, it was long before the earth was even placed in the starry heavens. If not it was also long before the stars were placed in the heavens.



How can one understand the bible better?

You demonstrate the truth of the proverb that says that there is little hope for people who are wise in their own eyes. Right off you are mistaken when you say about the Bible "It is a manual for living a better life. It is also a guide to creating a better society for ourselves and our children. It has changed my life!"



The Bible is about rebellious sinners who decided to live their lives according to their own "wisdom" and the patient love of God who would redeem them from their lost state so that they might enjoy eternal life with Him once again.



While the Bible was written long ago by men who lived in primitive conditions the human race hasn't changed one bit. There are still callous murderers and adulterers and perverts and liars and thieves and greedy rulers looking to oppress them all. Just because we have cell phones and computers and drive cars doesn't make us any better than the people who went before us.



I hope that one day God will reveal Himself to you and take away the deceptive veil of post modernistic philosophy that somehow thinks that mankind can save themselves if they just get sophisticated enough and develop technology that will supply all of our needs. It hasn't happened in 6 thousand years and a daily look at the world news will prove that it isn't happening today either.



How can one understand the bible better?

When you're ready to know the truth, the truth will be there, in the bible, waiting for you. I don't mean to offend, but that's just the way it is.



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I certainly don't have all the answers. Especially not the answers that would have someone turn from their ways, or their so called truths, to find the truth of our Lord. I've strayed, I've backslid, I went with open eyes down the wrong path.. but then something happened, and I finally returned to God. Each time was more and more difficult.. each time I was more ashamed..



I found this bible to rally help me:



iworship daily devotional bible - integrity - nlt



I see that there are more daily devotionals out there, with notes and study guides, by people that have walked with our Lord..



May your journey take you to the truth.. and may you have the courage to accept it.



How can one understand the bible better?

I HEAR YOU ON THIS. PERHAPS HOME BIBLE STUDY WILL ASSIST TO PUT INTO BETTER PERSPECTIVE. IT DID FOR ME. READ ON:



Is the Bible relevant today? For the answer to be yes, surely this age-old book would have to offer its readers guidance on topics of current interest and relevance. Does the Bible provide beneficial counsel on subjects that are of real importance in today's world?



Let us take a look at two current issues. In doing so, we will examine what the Bible says about these matters.



Why Does God Allow Suffering?



In view of the conditions in the world today, one of the most commonly asked questions is: Why does God allow innocent people to suffer? This question is justified, since more and more people are being affected by violent crime, corruption, genocide, personal tragedy, and so forth.



For example, in June 1998 an express train crashed into a bridge in northern Germany, killing more than a hundred passengers. Even experienced medics and firemen who attended to the injured and the dead were upset by the carnage. A bishop of the Evangelical Church asked: "Dear God, Why did this have to happen?" The bishop himself gave no answer.



Experience shows that when innocent people suffer evil without getting an explanation about the cause, they sometimes become embittered. Here is where the Bible can help, for it explains why innocent people are subjected to wickedness and suffering.



Do you know why God allows the innocent to suffer?



When Jehovah God created the earth and everything on it, he did not intend that humankind be troubled by wickedness and suffering. How can we be sure? Because upon completing his creation, "God saw everything he had made and, look! it was very good." (Genesis 1:31) Ask yourself, 'If I were to observe something wicked, would I pronounce it "very good"?' Of course not! In the same way, when God pronounced everything "very good," there was no trace of wickedness on earth. So when and how did wickedness start?



Shortly after the creation of our first parents, Adam and Eve, a powerful spirit creature approached the woman and challenged Jehovah's truthfulness and the rightfulness of his sovereignty. (Genesis 3:1-5) This creature, Satan the Devil, later alleged that humans would not stay loyal to God under adversity. (Job 2:1-5) How did Jehovah react to this situation? He allowed for the passing of time so that it would become evident that humans cannot successfully direct their steps independent of him. (Jeremiah 10:23) When creatures act contrary to God's laws and principles, the result is sin, which produces injurious conditions. (Ecclesiastes 8:9; 1 John 3:4) Despite these adverse circumstances, however, Jehovah knew that some humans would maintain integrity to him.



Since that woeful rebellion in Eden, some 6,000 years have elapsed. Is that too long? Jehovah could have destroyed Satan and his supporters centuries ago. But has it not been better to wait until every conceivable doubt about the rightness of Jehovah's sovereignty and the integrity of humans to him is dispelled? Is it not true of present judicial systems that a court case to prove who is right and who is wrong may take years?



In view of the importance of the issues facing Jehovah and mankind閳ユ敆niversal sovereignty and the integrity of humans閳ユ攬ow wise it was of God to allow for time to pass! Now we see clearly what happens when humans ignore God's laws and take charge of their own affairs. The result is widespread evil. And that is why so many innocent people suffer today.



Happily, though, God's Word indicates that wickedness will not last forever. In fact, Jehovah will soon put an end to evil and to those who cause it. "As regards the wicked," says Proverbs 2:22, "they will be cut off from the very earth; and as for the treacherous, they will be torn away from it." On the other hand, those faithful to God can look forward to a time, now near at hand, when "death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore."閳ユ摫evelation 21:4.



So, then, the Bible clearly explains why the innocent suffer. It also assures us that evil and suffering will soon end. As we experience life's present hardships, however, we need the answer to another vital question.



What Is the Purpose of Life?



You can enjoy a purposeful life



Perhaps now more than at any other time in mankind's history, people are trying to find out what life is all about. Many ask themselves, 'Why am I living? How can I find meaning in my life?' Various circumstances prompt them to raise these questions.



An individual's life may be shattered by a personal tragedy. For instance, early in 1998 a 12-year-old girl living in Bavaria, Germany, was kidnapped and murdered. One year later, her mother admitted that she spends each day searching for a purpose in life閳ユ敄o no avail. Some young people are moved to wonder about the meaning of life. They search for security, fulfillment, and a sense of belonging, only to despair at the widespread hypocrisy and corruption. Other individuals build their lives around a career, but they discover that power, prestige, and possessions fail to satisfy the inner yearning to find a reason for their existence.



Whatever moves a person to inquire about the purpose of life, this question warrants a serious and satisfying answer. Once again, the Bible can be of great benefit. It identifies Jehovah as a God of purpose, one who has sound reasons for everything he does. We ask, Would you construct a house without having a reason? Likely not, since building a house requires a huge investment of money and can take months or years. You build a house so that you or someone else can live in it. The same logic can be applied to Jehovah. He did not go to all the trouble of creating the earth and the living things upon it without having a reason, a purpose. (Compare Hebrews 3:4.) What is his purpose for the earth?



The prophecy of Isaiah identifies Jehovah as "the true God, the Former of the earth and the Maker of it." Indeed, he is "the One who firmly established [the earth], who did not create it simply for nothing, who formed it even to be inhabited." (Isaiah 45:18) Yes, ever since the earth was created, it has been Jehovah's purpose to have it inhabited. Says Psalm 115:16: "As regards the heavens, to Jehovah the heavens belong, but the earth he has given to the sons of men." Thus the Bible shows that Jehovah created the earth to be inhabited by obedient humans, who would take care of it.閳ユ摜enesis 1:27, 28.



Did the rebellion of Adam and Eve cause Jehovah to change his purpose? No. How can we be so sure? Well, consider this point: The Bible was written thousands of years after the rebellion in Eden. If God had abandoned his original purpose, why is that not mentioned in the Bible? The obvious conclusion is that his purpose for the earth and mankind remains unchanged.



Moreover, Jehovah's purpose never fails. Through Isaiah, God provides this assurance: "Just as the pouring rain descends, and the snow, from the heavens and does not return to that place, unless it actually saturates the earth and makes it produce and sprout, and seed is actually given to the sower and bread to the eater, so my word that goes forth from my mouth will prove to be. It will not return to me without results, but it will certainly do that in which I have delighted, and it will have certain success in that for which I have sent it."閳ユ摠saiah 55:10, 11.



What God Expects of Us



Clearly, then, we can have confidence in the fulfillment of God's purpose to have the earth inhabited forever by obedient humans. If we are to be among those privileged to live permanently on earth, we must do what wise King Solomon said: "Fear the true God and keep his commandments. For this is the whole obligation of man."閳ユ摗cclesiastes 12:13; John 17:3.



Living in harmony with Jehovah's purpose for mankind means getting to know the true God and conforming to his requirements as set out in the Holy Scriptures. If we do this now, we can entertain the hope of everlasting life on a paradise earth, in which we will never cease to learn new things about God and his wonderful creation. (Luke 23:43) What a thrilling prospect!



Many who search for a purpose in life turn to the Bible and find great happiness right now. For instance, a young man named Alfred could find no meaning in life. The involvement of religion in war disgusted him, and he was upset at the hypocrisy and corruption in politics. Alfred visited Indians of North America in the hope of gaining enlightenment about life's purpose, only to return to Europe disappointed. In despair, he turned to drugs and wild music. However, a regular and careful examination of the Bible later helped Alfred to recognize the true purpose of life and to find contentment.



A Dependable Light to Our Roadway



What, then, can we conclude about the Bible? Is it relevant today? It is, indeed, because it offers guidance on current issues. The Bible explains that wickedness is not of God's making and helps us to find a satisfying purpose in life. Furthermore, the Bible has much to say on other matters that are of great interest today. Such topics as marriage, child rearing, human relations, and hope for the dead are dealt with in God's Word.



If you have not done so already, please take a close look at the contents of the Bible. Once you discover the true value of its guidelines for life, you may well feel as did the psalmist who looked to Jehovah God for guidance and sang: "Your word is a lamp to my foot, and a light to my roadway."閳ユ摨salm 119:105.



Faith and Reason閳ユ摐re They Compatible?



Search for God With Your Heart and Mind



True Christianity encourages the use of both the heart and the mind in building faith that pleases God.



IN FACT, Christianity's founder, Jesus Christ, taught that we must love God with our "whole mind," or intellect, in addition to our "whole heart" and "whole soul." (Matthew 22:37) Yes, our mental faculties must play a key role in our worship.



When inviting his listeners to reflect on his teaching, Jesus often said: "What do you think?" (Matthew 17:25; 18:12; 21:28; 22:42) In like manner, the apostle Peter wrote to fellow believers in order to 'arouse their clear thinking faculties.' (2 Peter 3:1) The most widely traveled early missionary, the apostle Paul, exhorted Christians to use their "power of reason" and to "prove to [themselves] the good and acceptable and perfect will of God." (Romans 12:1, 2) Only by such a thorough, careful approach to their beliefs can Christians build faith that is pleasing to God and is equal to the tests that arise in life.閳ユ摟ebrews 11:1, 6.



To help others build such faith, early Christian evangelizers "reasoned with them from the Scriptures, explaining and proving by references" the things taught. (Acts 17:1-3) Such a reasonable approach elicited a fine response from honesthearted ones. For example, a number of people in the Macedonian city of Beroea "received the word [of God] with the greatest eagerness of mind, carefully examining the Scriptures daily as to whether these things [explained by Paul and his companions] were so." (Acts 17:11) Two things are worth noting here. First, the Beroeans were eager to listen to God's Word; second, they did not blindly assume that what they heard was correct, but they referred back to the Scriptures. The Christian missionary Luke humbly commended the Beroeans for this, calling them "noble-minded." Do you reflect such a noble mind in your approach to spiritual matters?



Mind and Heart Cooperate



As mentioned earlier, true worship involves both the mind and the heart. (Mark 12:30) Think back to the illustration in the preceding article of the hired painter who used the wrong colors when painting a house. If he had listened carefully to his employer's instructions, he could have put his heart and soul into his work and had confidence that his work would have the owner's approval. The same applies to our worship.



"The true worshipers," Jesus said, "will worship the Father with spirit and truth." (John 4:23) Hence, the apostle Paul wrote: "That is also why we . . . have not ceased praying for you and asking that you may be filled with the accurate knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual comprehension, in order to walk worthily of Jehovah to the end of fully pleasing him." (Colossians 1:9, 10) Such "accurate knowledge" enables sincere individuals to put their heart and soul into their worship with full confidence because they "worship what [they] know."閳ユ摡ohn 4:22.



For these reasons, Jehovah's Witnesses do not baptize infants or newly interested people who have not carefully studied the Scriptures. Jesus commissioned his followers: "Make disciples of people of all the nations, . . . teaching them to observe all the things I have commanded you." (Matthew 28:19, 20) Only after having gained an accurate knowledge of God's will can sincere Bible students make an informed decision about the matter of worship. Are you striving to gain such an accurate knowledge?



Do you grasp



the meaning of Jesus' model prayer? Understanding the Lord's Prayer



To see the difference between having an accurate knowledge of the Bible and having a passing acquaintance with what it says, let us consider what is commonly called the Our Father, or the Lord's Prayer, recorded at Matthew 6:9-13.



Millions regularly recite Jesus' model prayer in church. But how many have been taught its meaning, especially the first part of the prayer dealing with God's name and Kingdom? These subjects are so important that Jesus placed them first in the prayer.



It begins: "Our Father in the heavens, let your name be sanctified," meaning hallowed, or made holy. Note that Jesus said to pray for God's name to be sanctified. To many people, that raises at least two questions. First, what is God's name? And second, why does it need to be sanctified?



"Our Father in the heavens, let your name be sanctified . . ." The answer to the first question can be found in over 7,000 places in the Bible in its original languages. One is at Psalm 83:18: "That people may know that you, whose name is Jehovah, you alone are the Most High over all the earth." Concerning the divine name, Jehovah, Exodus 3:15 says: "This is my name to time indefinite, and this is the memorial of me to generation after generation."* But why does the name of God, which is the very epitome of purity and holiness, need to be sanctified? Because it has been reproached and maligned from the very beginning of human history.



In Eden, God told Adam and Eve that they would die if they ate the forbidden fruit. (Genesis 2:17) Satan brazenly contradicted God, saying to Eve: "You positively will not die." Hence, Satan accused God of lying. Yet, he did not rest there. He heaped still more reproach on God's name, telling Eve that God was unjustly withholding valuable knowledge from her. "For God knows that in the very day of your eating from [the tree of the knowledge of good and bad] your eyes are bound to be opened and you are bound to be like God, knowing good and bad." What slander!閳ユ摜enesis 3:4, 5.



By partaking of the forbidden fruit, Adam and Eve took their stand with Satan. Most humans since then, knowingly or not, have added to that original reproach by rejecting God's righteous standards. (1 John 5:19) People still malign God by blaming him for their suffering閳ユ攨ven though it may be due to their own bad ways. "A man's own folly wrecks his life, and then he bears a grudge against the Lord," says Proverbs 19:3. (The New English Bible) Can you see why Jesus, who truly loved his Father, prayed that His name be sanctified?



"Let your [Messianic] kingdom come . . ." "Let Your Kingdom Come"



After praying for God's name to be sanctified, Jesus said: "Let your kingdom come. Let your will take place, as in heaven, also upon earth." (Matthew 6:10) Concerning that passage, we may ask: 'What is God's Kingdom? And what does its coming have to do with God's will being done on earth?'



In the Bible, the word "kingdom" basically means a "rulership by a king." Logically, then, God's Kingdom would refer to a rulership, or government, by God, with a king of his choosing. This King is none other than the resurrected Jesus Christ閳ユ敄he "King of kings and Lord of lords." (Revelation 19:16; Daniel 7:13, 14) Concerning God's Messianic Kingdom in the hands of Jesus Christ, the prophet Daniel wrote: "In the days of those kings [human governments now ruling] the God of heaven will set up a kingdom that will never be brought to ruin. And the kingdom itself will not be passed on to any other people. It will crush and put an end to all these kingdoms, and it itself will stand to times indefinite," that is, forever.閳ユ摖aniel 2:44.



Yes, God's Kingdom will take complete control of the earth, ridding it of all the wicked and ruling "to times indefinite," that is, forever. In this way, God's Kingdom is the means by which Jehovah sanctifies his name, clearing it of all the lying reproach of Satan and wicked humans.閳ユ摗zekiel 36:23.



Like all governments, God's Kingdom has subjects. Who are these? The Bible answers: "The meek ones themselves will possess the earth, and they will indeed find their exquisite delight in the abundance of peace." (Psalm 37:11) Similarly, Jesus said: "Happy are the mild-tempered ones, since they will inherit the earth." Of course, these ones have accurate knowledge of God, which is a requirement for life.閳ユ摤atthew 5:5; John 17:3.



"Let your will take place,



as in heaven, also upon earth"



Can you imagine the whole earth filled with meek, mild-tempered people who truly love God and love one another? (1 John 4:7, 8) That is what Jesus prayed for when he said: "Let your kingdom come. Let your will take place, as in heaven, also upon earth." Do you appreciate why Jesus taught his followers to pray that way? More important, do you see how that prayer's fulfillment may affect you personally?



Millions Are Now Reasoning on the Scriptures



Jesus foretold a global campaign of spiritual education that would announce God's incoming Kingdom. He said: "This good news of the kingdom will be preached in all the inhabited earth for a witness to all the nations; and then the end [of the present world, or system] will come."閳ユ摤atthew 24:14.



Around the world some six million of Jehovah's Witnesses are sharing that good news with their neighbors. They invite you to learn more about God and his Kingdom by "carefully examining the Scriptures," using your power of reason. Doing so will fortify your faith and make your eyes glow with the hope of life on a paradise earth, which will be "filled with the knowledge of Jehovah as the waters are covering the very sea."閳ユ摠saiah 11:6-9.



* Some scholars prefer the rendering "Yahweh" instead of "Jehovah." However, most modern Bible translators have erased God's name from their versions in any form, replacing it with the generic titles "Lord" or "God." For an in-depth discussion of God's name, please see the brochure The Divine Name That Will Endure Forever, published by Jehovah's Witnesses.



Knowledge of the Truth Dispels Fear



Consider, for example, the case of Eugenia. She was reared in a strict Catholic household. Her father was one of the organizers of the papal visit to Mexico in 1979. While visiting friends, Eugenia came in contact with Jehovah's Witnesses. With their help she began to analyze more closely what the Bible says. She recalls: "At first, fear began to well up. I had found the truth! But this meant that most of my prior beliefs were wrong. My family, my friends, people whom I loved閳ユ敄hey were all wrong. I was nervous. I kept asking myself how my family would react to what I had newly discovered. As time passed and with Jehovah's help, I began to adjust to this overwhelming experience. One day I decided to confide in a family friend, a professor of theology. I told him all about my desire to find the truth. Then he noted, 'If you want to know the truth, look for Jehovah's Witnesses.'"



As Eugenia had feared, her family put her out of the house. The Witnesses, however, continued to give her spiritual help. She comments: "I was strengthened to take a stand for the truth. I realized that it was something worth fighting for. The welcome I received from Jehovah's Witnesses was so important. I felt loved within the Christian congregation. Getting close to God's organization helped me to overcome the fear of having to stand alone."



Consider another example. Sabrina grew up accustomed to having regular family discussions about the Bible. In fact, they developed a form of 'family religion.' She made it a practice to associate with members of various religions to expose their errors. When one of Jehovah's Witnesses offered her a Bible study, she readily accepted with the intention of disproving their beliefs. She recalls: "After studying for more than a year, I became afraid of losing 'my truth.' I had found it easy to expose the deceit of the many religions that I had been involved with, but it was not so easy this time."



Sabrina's fear made her discontinue her study of the Bible with Jehovah's Witnesses. But then she felt spiritually empty. She decided to resume the study and eventually came to accept this newfound truth. Sabrina progressed to the point of wanting to share with others what she was learning. She even requested to accompany the Witnesses in their house-to-house ministry. Sabrina explains: "Before receiving approval to preach with Jehovah's Witnesses, I was asked: 'Do you really want to be one of Jehovah's Witnesses?' 'No!' I answered. Fear welled up in me again." Finally, after continuing to attend all the meetings and observing God's people and how they apply Bible principles, Sabrina came to the conclusion that it was really the truth. She was baptized and is now a full-time evangelizer.



Why So Different?



Someone might ask, 'Why are the teachings of Jehovah's Witnesses so different from other religions?' A brief look at what the Witnesses believe will help you to see that they are sincere Christians, conscientious students of the Bible. We encourage you to look up in your own Bible the texts in the summary of their basic beliefs shown above.



By taking a closer look at what Jehovah's Witnesses believe and how they adhere to what the Bible teaches, you can be blessed with the freedom that the truth provides. (John 17:17) There is no reason to fear the truth. Remember Jesus' promise: "You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."閳ユ摡ohn 8:32.



Some Basic Beliefs Of Jehovah's Witnesses



Jehovah is the almighty God. His personal name appears more than 7,000 times in the earliest manuscripts of the Bible.閳ユ摨salm 83:18.



Jesus Christ is God's Son, who came to earth to give his life for humankind. (John 3:16, 17) Jehovah's Witnesses follow the teachings of Jesus Christ as they are found in the Gospels.



The name Jehovah's Witnesses is based on Isaiah 43:10, which says: "'You are my witnesses,' is the utterance of Jehovah."



The Kingdom that people pray for in the "Our Father" prayer is a heavenly government that will soon take away all the suffering and pain in the world to make room for the Paradise that the Bible promises.閳ユ摠saiah 9:6, 7; Daniel 2:44; Matthew 6:9, 10; Revelation 21:3, 4.



Everyone who does the will of God has the opportunity to enjoy the Kingdom blessings eternally.閳ユ摡ohn 17:3; 1 John 2:17.



Christians must mold their behavior by what the Bible says. They must endeavor to be honest, to live a clean, moral life, and to show love to their neighbor.閳ユ摤atthew 22:39; John 13:35; 1 Corinthians 6:9, 10.



How You Can Find Out What God Requires



What important information is contained in the Bible? (1)



Who is the Bible's author? (2)



Why should you study the Bible? (3)



1. The Bible is a precious gift from God. It is like a letter from a loving father to his children. It tells us the truth about God閳ユ敋ho he is and what he stands for. It explains how to cope with problems and how to find true happiness. The Bible alone tells us what we must do to please God.閳ユ摨salm 1:1-3; Isaiah 48:17, 18.



2. The Bible was written by some 40 different men over a period of 1,600 years, beginning in 1513 B.C.E. It is made up of 66 little books. Those who wrote the Bible were inspired by God. They wrote his thoughts, not their own. So God in heaven, not any human on earth, is the Author of the Bible.閳? Timothy 3:16, 17; 2 Peter 1:20, 21.



3. God made sure that the Bible was accurately copied and preserved. More Bibles have been printed than any other book. Not everyone will be happy to see you studying the Bible, but do not let that stop you. Your eternal future depends on your getting to know God and doing his will despite any opposition.閳ユ摤atthew 5:10-12; John 17:3.



How can one understand the bible better?

i simply can't top rosettaro....so i have to pass on this one



How can one understand the bible better?

Sweet girl, I'm the guy who asked about Christians having done TM whose story you loved and you thought I was terrific.



Yes there are parts of the Bible that seem to make no sense at first but I'm sure they're all there for a reason and teach Truth one way or another - literally, metaphorically, poetically. God didn't write the Bible, but men (and a couple of women) did by His inspiration.



First, the creation story. The Hebrew word translated as "day" means "time period" in fact. Like I can say "We have the internet today" or "we didn't have it in my day". So God created everything in six time periods. You will find these correspond exactly with the scientific order of creation.



Second, Moloch was a false god who people sacrificed children to by burning in fire. Wouldn't you condemn such a practice? The main point to remember throughout the difficult parts of the Mosaic Law, in Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy, is that the Israelites had just been rescued from slavery in Egypt by the one true God by means of miraculous deeds, which they were supposed to remember and be grateful for. He didn't want them corrupted by the practices of the neighbouring tribes and went to some length to tell them so. Punishment by death was preferable to the whole nation going astray and being lost to the devil, since God had a very special plan for them, culminating in them providing the Messiah.



Beating slaves etc. must be understood in the context of the culture of the times; the laws were meant to prevent injustice and cruelty and show respect for all people, a concept not readily understood in those days (or by many today). Our attitude to what is right and wrong has shifted very much in recent years in our western culture - we think it's obvious that slavery and discrimination against women are wrong, yet fornication and sexual perversion are just fine. Bribery is wrong, but a corrupt voting system and needing millions of dollars to get elected is fine. We should take another look at real absolute values of right and wrong, which never change. It's summed up best by Jesus when He says "Love the lord your God with all your..." and "Love your neighbour as yourself".



As for Paul and his admonition that women should be quiet in church, my understanding of that is that they may prophesy, speak in tongues, give words of knowledge and wisdom and interpret tongues, but not teach or lead. You may think this is misogynistic and outdated, but I think maybe he was right. Women do tend to blather on a lot (so do male preachers unfortunately) and I think women are easily tempted to go the way of over-tolerance of sin rather than aiming for holiness. Yeah, men can be the other way and be over-condemnatory, but I do think (controversially) that women shouldn't be spiritual leaders over men.



Having said that, remember what I said about Karen Dunham in my question? She calls herself a pastor and she did me more good than anyone else, so it's a difficult issue.



Don't give up on the Bible, Sweet Girl, read John, Acts, Galatians, Ephesians, 1 John. I pray you'll find the true love of God. Then you'll be willing to humbly admit you don't understand everything about Him.